Primal/Animalistic Energies

I have been talking to men and women lately about primal/animalistic energies. So many men have been trained to not live in their animal…that is scares women or it might come across abusive or aggressive.

I wrote a while back about how some women love to be “taken” and I got amazing responses from agreeing to it and excited about it and craving it, to one woman asking it that was what was called “consensual rape”. We have to understand that when a human is in their primal energy that it can look a million different ways but from what I see and experience is it is an intense, powerful and fiery energy and sometimes a grounded one..depending on the person. But consensual rape it is not…it is listening to your partners body, the yes comes from her body or his, and then the partner slowly starts to come into their energy field with that animal/primal nature to feel and see if the yes is still there…and if it is, then “takes” her..and what that means is for one partner to be yes in their body and the other one follows that yes, it may mean pushing, let’s say her, up against the wall, with a knee spreading her legs…or maybe it means throwing her down on the bed and there is scratching, biting, hair pulling or maybe it it just an energetic thing that is felt in the space or others use words and breath to convey they are in charge…or maybe it is a primal wrestling match that is hot for the two of you!

Coming back to men and women in this…men have been asking how to get into their primal energies…and does this mean they have to change who they are…even though most know this primal energy has been trained out of them…they don’t know how to put it back in. Well, from what I see and have experience…some people just need given permission…I sometimes take my clients through some exercises to get them into their primal energies, into their animal side. Others they just need someone to practice being with this energy that feels new to them. Having a practice partner is always such a wonderful gift in this…even it if not a sexual buddy, someone to just explore with…to reinitiate you into your primal energy to embrace it, nourish and feed it….and I say, only do this if you are a hell yes to it. If you like exactly who you are, just be that way, don’t change for another unless that changing for them is important to you.

Women are missing the masculine energy, the energy that takes charge, anywhere from makes plans for the night, him (if the partner is a man) choosing the restaurant, to once we are back home, having them take us into his arms and devour us in the most passionate way!

It doesn’t have to be negatively aggressive, it doesn’t have to be kinky, it doesn’t have to be prearranged…the animal just needs to be let out of it’s cage in a way that the partner can be a hell yes to it. Both parties need to be a hell yes to it.

I invite you to have a night with your partner and play in your animalistic energies…pressing your partner down to the bed…and at first there might be a lot of negotiating before hand…but as time goes by allow the organic-ness of it all just blossom! And if you don’t have a partner, invite a friend over

I believe so many are hungering for the animal in us to be drawn out…it is time…to consciously bring it out, play and explore…crawl on the floor, wrestle, bite, whatever does it for you…just bring her/him out to play!